How to make a man happy a tag game

[sunkan]

How to make a man happy:

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

-Take care that he does not forget to carry all his stuff to his working place

Or outing

-Be appreciative when he feels his list should be in the agenda like first the tv

Match and fix up an appointment as he is very forget full for shopping.

-Always try to pitch in with whatever u can for his balance so that

He can be sure of his indulgence in the month end..

-Do not pester him with trivialities like the electricity bill or the rent of the car

Loan etc, c if u can adjust in the family budget and save something for him

To spend too…

-Dress to kill but cover urself fully so that others don’t look at you.

Or even better c to it that he is more handsome as a pair….



AT THE SAME TIME U MUST ALSO:

-Give him lots of attention in private not in public.

-Allow him to finish his cell chat or his telephonic

Conversation without interruption. You can wait..

-Give your purchase list keeping it to minimum and allow

Him to smile more….



IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:



Never to forget:

*His appointments,

*His friends parties.

*His family’s gatherings



In short woman should follow LAUGHS to make a man happy



L love him like a baby as he never grows up

A appreciation of all his acts without fail.

U ultimate in adoration, so he is confident about his base in life..

G Give him the feeling that he is the boss, and decides all things in life..

H Help him all u can be a back bone in life but never make him feel so.

S support is the other word for the better half of his life…



Regards

sunkan
THIS IS A SIMPLE TAG GAME THE TITLE IS HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY, HERE I HAVE GIVEN A FEW SUGGESTIONS AND HAVE TAGGED MY FRIEND HERE, LIKE WISE ALL WHO COME FORWARD AND ANSWER SHOULD SELECT THREE OF THEIR FRIENDS TO JOIN AND WRITE THEIR OPINION ON THE SUBJECT...
now i tag my friends, mals, chitra and jyoti to come up with their opinion on how to make their man happy....

[dr.jyoti gupta]

hi sundari,thanks for tagging me as a friend.here are my few ways to make a man happy:

i do not really try to do so apparently.if i see him in anger,and i dont now the cause,i give him his own time to speak up.it may take an hour,or a day.but keeping on asking will eat up his brain and he will bang your head in return.so better be silent.this is the best way to avoid conflicts.

when he is in a good mood and relaxing at home,i find it the best time when i can discuss my things with him.this is the evening time,when he is off from his work.

i never start talking about household matters as soon as he enters home.this irritates him and may drag him away from home.let him rest for a time,and then you may speakout.

friends,you all are my friends,but i have to tag 3,so i forward:

swapnanjali,suchitra,and ketki

[sunkan]

dear jyoti,
by now a lot of research has been done on this problem and they say men take a while before they can accept the change of scene that is from office to home so it is better to give him hot tea and let him relax then take up any issue, even in olden days they used to insist that the girls be ready that is comb and dress up before the husband arrives so one can invite with a smile, this helped many to over come small little tiffs, nice practical tips dear, happy you wrote here, pl do intimate ur friends via pm or they may miss out..sunkan

[malspie]

Dear Sunkan,

Let me first thank you for posting the link, as I happen to miss certain vital threads.

How to make a man happy!

A great topic on which woman are working hard since they have discovered 'Man' and failed!

Men are like kids, who can be happy only for some time, they can easily shift their focus and interest which makes every woman very unhappy.

I cannot toil to Make my man happy. I feel in a relationship both the man and woman should work to have a pleasant relationship. It does not mean she withdraws herself in her shell and keeps a distance from him ( a kind of mini sacrifice!) because of his silly tantrums and he remains out with his friends coz she is a bit bossy! It also does not mean each of them superficially try to make each other happy and believe in it!

In any relationship, if one tries not hurt each others feelings and not hurt them, not make them feel lonely, not to do things that pleases oneself only, talk a lot, discuss on various topics, have fun, and live life like two best buddies, then none of them have to work hard to make any one happy.

I will feel choked in a relationship where I cannot do what I want to do, I cannot talk and express my feelings, I am expected to understand and react, I will end up in a asylum!

I am tagging Banishapa, Sabmeh and Swapanjali.

[anandchitra]

Sunkan
Thanks for tagging me and also sending me note.

This topic is verygood but not easy to answer as onereply cannot fit all.

Of the replies here , yours is the best. because of experience.
second is jyoti. also experience
Mals my friend's reply ... well not going to comment.

Like I said this is not one answers fits all category.
so it makes sense to know your spouse and work together as a team to make each other comfortable and happy

i will try and think more and comeback to continue

I tag, Sabmeb, Banishapa, Shanthi krishnakumar, easycrafts

[swapnanjalis]

Dear Sunkan , it's really a good topic and i feel everybody should give their view here...
Thanks Jyoti and malspie for tagging me....
To make a man happy is sometime very difficult task but if we'll try then we can make it :)
1.You can change the mood of a man by preparing his favourite food and by giving this surprise after coming from office....generally after office they just want to take good food and rest properly ....you just try to talk with man very politely after office hour...they just want this

2. Try to support him always in front of others so that he feels and realize that he is everything for you, then he 'll take extra care of you.

3.Gift him something surprise in certain occassions such as his birthday and in anniversary which he was fond of in past...

4.Never ask for any ornaments :)

I am tagging tulsi,sharonfern1,shine

[dr.jyoti gupta]

dear swapna,these are very simple but important things.if one follows them,married life is much easier.

[sunkan]

great friends,
nice to know the chain is extending and beautiful contribution is pouring in the outcome of experience is speaking here...sunkan

[sunkan]

swapna
happy to see you here dear...sunkan

[swapnanjalis]

yes dear Jyoti...these are simple and very simplebut sometime i don't know why these are really difficult for me :), hope it's depending upon my mood :)

[swapnanjalis]

thanks sunkan :), it's a very good topic so thread should be more lenghty :)

[easycrafts]

There is always a right time to talk about everything- first try to know the husband's mood by knowing about his day in short and then start ur discussion.

Try to finish off whatever u want to shop all by yourself unless otherwise the husband's opinion is reqd

Spend quality time with husband on activities he like to do unless otherwise u really hate that activity

I tag Arti, Rekha

[sunkan]

hai sakhis,
while on this subject i request you all to get a copy of the book named MEN DON'T LISTEN AND WOMEN CANNOT READ MAPS, by ALLEN AND BARBARA PEASE, WONDERFUL INSIGHT INTO MEN AND WOMEN AND HOW THEY THINK, i am sure it is a great guide to this subject.. women especially want to gear up for the situation so a copy will help u solve why and how they think the way they do...sunkan

[dr.jyoti gupta]

dear swapna,the success depends on the other party's nature too.when you are doing your part,and the other end is not ready to cooperate,then its not your fault.

[swapnanjalis]

yes dear Jyoti , we can't clap using one hand only we need two hands to clap :)...
so better to try and try as i believe we need to remember the fact that spider never stop spinning web....keep trying

[banishapa]

Thanks sunkan for beautiful thread and mals for sending me PM.
Lovely acts by you gals to keep man happy.
I try to keep atmosphere light.
I will behave like a kid when needed and be like his mother when he needs discipline. I dont drag any topic, If I know this is getting serious I leave the topic and continue may be next day.

I tag Neha, Rekha, tulsi.

[Rekha]

Thanks Sunkan for such a lovely and very useful thread...
And thanks for EC and Banishapa for tagging me and making me part of this...
Sunkan u have mentioned almost all points about how to make a man happy...

Understanding and respecting each other is very important.
Dont restrict them for everything.
Try to do all work by yourself.
Never let your child cry infront of your husband, i mean take care of your child all by yourself... Many times we fight for this reason...
Dont complaint, give gifts on occassions, prepare his favourite food...
And always keep ur face smiling....
We all know these things, but I am not sure we all do this...
I am tagging to Vidya, Neha and rekhagadge....

[sunkan]

rekha if u notice all that i have mentioned is not possible some may be but not all, and this is no guide line, but the sayings people say, and i wanted all my sakhi's to pour in their experience to help each other, it would be mind blowing if i take up issues sensitive that would help all of you to help each other, but then how many would come forward...sunkan

[Rekha]

Yes Sunkan I agree with you... It will help all of us...All have different views...

[tulsi34]

Sunkan, kudos for starting wonderful thread. Sakhis, loved your tips.
When it comes to men, they are like childrens.
They want attnetion. Give them little bit extra attention in public. Just asking at the dinner table, do you need more curry? will help.
My hubby loves this things like
Moving my hands through his hairs.
When he coems home, once in a way " You are working so hard and contributing so much towards family"
"Today I want to cook what you like, tell me what you feel like eating?"
Beleive me they feel they are on the 7th heaven.

I tag Vidya, sunetra, shalaka

[dr.jyoti gupta]

hi tulsi,sooooooooooooooooooooooo sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!
moving hands in hair!
wow!!
aur kya kya pasand hai unko??????

[tulsi34]

Jyoti,men love it when you move your hands through their hair. Rest all is secret :)

[dr.jyoti gupta]

this is my past tulsi.now if i tend to move my fingers,he gets irritated because the hair army has reduced alot,and he fears that the remaining may fall off.hehehe.:)

[swapnanjalis]

dear tulsi good one...i like your suggestion :)...
Share us few more secrete so that we can also take advantages...don't ignore by saying secret we also want to know the fact so that our family life wud be better....

Dear Jyoti what you told about finger tips is true some how...initially after marraige my better-half used to feel happy ...but now saying same ...:)

[banishapa]

Swapna, May be Tulsi's secrets are censored hehehe
All the tips are very helpful.
These are some dont;s in front of hubby
Do not complain about your health too much unless it is serious and needs attention.
This is tricky one
divide your days into two categories
50- percent of the time, finish off all the work and be neat, comb your hair, and whatever your habits are regular.
50 percent of the time all the hard work cooking, cleaning, dusting, do it infront of hubby without complaining very happily.
Do mix n match. Sometimes read, play,watch intelligent shows. Do mix n match of all the acitvities.
always be your hubbies loving dear darling smiling.

[shalaka39]

good tips sakhis.
Food keeps most of the men happy. Cook food they like and mention it too them.
I know you like "kheer" so thought of making it today. Dont make it obvious just casual mentioning will do.
I tag Shanthi, Neha, Vidya

Can we tag same sakhis again or go through the list and find who has been tagged

[swapnanjalis]

yes banishapa, what you told about managing time is good point ...better not to complainregarding health issue...as hubby want a perfect family atmosphere always... so better to be with good health ...do work but don't forget to rest as face is the mirror ...if we are too tired by doing all works then we can't give attention to Mr hubby while talking with him :)

[devika235]

Sunkan, thanks for starting intresting thread. Wow!! only few days since thread has been posted and what a response.
We womens tend to ignore ourselves becasue we are so busy taking care of our family. It is important to taek care of amily but at the same time make some time for yourself. dress up properly while your hubby is at home. You dont ahev to be up to date all teh time but shabby is not advisable.

[sulu2000]

Sunkan, very intresting thread, I will soon coem up with soemthing.

[Neha]

Sunkan..nice thread..some tips are really good and can be applied for any relationship..

[Neha]

Bani, Rekha and Shalaka Dear,
Thanks for tagging me.

In my opinion.. Men and Women are 2 sides of a coin, both cant live without each other and they have to be happily together to make a happy family..
Many sakhish has shared very good points..I have very few to share..

- There are some basic diff in Men and Women. Women would always like to discuss and resolve the issue where as Men would say let it go..wrap up and move on...so in case of disputes/issues sometimes its good to avoid the discussion and behave what other party expects. Also try to put yourself in other's shoes and think about the problem/situation, I know its difficult but this will improve the understanding :)

- Men will always show that he is tough n not an easy going but they like that some one cares for them..so Care for small things..but dont get possesive. Possesiveness makes them feel like they are tied with strings all around..

- Lastly...dont insult your betterhalf infront of others, this will hurt his/her ego. Other then you 2, no one can resolve the problem so better dont disclose d things to the world.

[dr.jyoti gupta]

dear neha,this is yet another positive aspect of your coin.you have a mature thinking.you are right.we shouldnt bring any third person between the couple's arguement.they both can only solve their problem,no one else.

[banishapa]

hay hay Neha dear, aapne to sabko piche chod diya. Kitani sayan hai re tu.
Neha, I was under impression that you learn about hubby and their nature after marriage but you are very smart. I am impressed.

[sabmeh]

Thanks sakhis for tagging me.
To keep man happy
cook good food, be pleasent most of the time and most important
do not talk bad about your family infront of him, It will bite you back. I have learnt through hard way.

[Neha]

dear neha,this is yet another positive aspect of your coin.you have a mature thinking.you are right.we shouldnt bring any third person between the couple's arguement.they both can only solve their problem,no one else.

Thank you Mam :)
vaise mai ye funda har relation mai apply karne ki koshish karti hun..but sometime it happens ki hum apni baat nahi samjha pate tab thodi si dusron ki help leni padti hai. But in case of couple's argument you are rite..no one else can solve the issue :)

[Neha]

hay hay Neha dear, aapne to sabko piche chod diya. Kitani sayan hai re tu.
Neha, I was under impression that you learn about hubby and their nature after marriage but you are very smart. I am impressed.

Bani Dear,
thank you hai ji :)
I dont believe in learning everything from self experience :cool: ..kuch chijen dusron ko dekh kar bhi sikh leti hun.. ye sab usi ka parinaam hai :)
he he he :D

[banishapa]

Neha, Your attitude towards marriage is matured. I can assure you, you will have fewer problems in marriage. I said fewer becuase I think we are putting an act when we say I dont fight, my hubby is sweet all the time, he helps me all the time. ..... we know person is lieing hehehe
Neha, you will have happy marriage life.

[Neha]

Neha, Your attitude towards marriage is matured. I can assure you, you will have fewer problems in marriage. I said fewer becuase I think we are putting an act when we say I dont fight, my hubby is sweet all the time, he helps me all the time. ..... we know person is lieing hehehe
Neha, you will have happy marriage life.

Thanks Bani dear..
you have boost up my Morale.. :)
I could only say.. "Waqt ke hathon mai sabki takdiren hai..
aaiyna jhuta hai succhi tasverein hai,
milegi kanhi koi rahgujar,
tanha katega ab na ye safar..
mere sapne ho jahan dhundhoo mai aisee nazar :)"