Am I a mental case?

[lotus]

I have a regular life with ups and downs no major issues. Small issues which every family has. I have one problem which I ahve kept to myself for last 35 years. I had normal childhood only thing was my father died when I was 10 years old. During my teenage years I would day dream about me being a victim and got married without my wishes. I had brother who is very strict and all. Almost everyday, I would day dream this and cry at night. Same story.
I got married to a nice guy. After marriage I day dream
I live in a joint family where all amy cousins are spending lot of money (All the characters are from known family who are in good terms with me)
They give me second hand clothes. I fell in love with a guy(known) and everything gets finalized. I am engaged my in-laws are very good to me and I am the happiest person on this earth. Suddenly one of my cousin decided to break off the marriage because he wants his sister to get married to my BF.
He breaks off the marriage using my other cousin. My BF hits me left and right and marriage is broken. Then my family forced me to ge marrried to a very old guy who is on the death bed. I become widow after 6 months. In this story, I ahve lost my parents and brother in air crash when I was 2 years old.
I day dream this story almost everyday and sometime remain awake whole night and cry a lot.
If I share this with my hubby he will feel I am mental.
I never had any affairs. I did not have any grudges with the family I am dreaming about. They are nice to me and they were good to me before too. I have no idea why I behave like this. Many times I wake up with headache because of my imaginary issue.
Sakhis, feel free to advice me on this. I need your frank opinion as I want to get out of this issue.

[sunetra365]

Lotus, Did you have crush with this guy who breaks the marriage with you in your dreams?

[pranati]

I feel you should go for counselling. Please dear find out some good counselor and discuss things with him/her. You will get solutions to your problems.

[redrose]

Lotus, you are not a mental case but you may need hypnotherapy or a visit to a counselor. There must be some reason behind your day dreams which you are not aware about.

[malspie]

You may have to go to PAST LIFE REGRESSION THERAPY... It will read your mind, as these scenes flash in your head from the time you are a child, it seems you are carrying your one of the previous birth memories...

It is important to go for the therapy, it will help; do not fall prey to some hoax counselors who hang around.

[dr.jyoti gupta]

lotus,please do not hesitate to visit a hypnotherapist.this is a treatment for such cases like yours.nothing to worry about.they will take you to your past,as mals said.and yo will find the real cause.if possible,i would like to help you in this case.you can pm me about your details.everything is kept secret.we are doing research on such problems related to past life.

[lotus]

Lotus, Did you have crush with this guy who breaks the marriage with you in your dreams?

Sunetra, I did not have crush on that guy but I would admire him.

[lotus]

I feel you should go for counselling. Please dear find out some good counselor and discuss things with him/her. You will get solutions to your problems.

I cannot do any activity without my hubby knowing about it. If I talk abut going to a counselor, I have to give explaination to my hubby which I am avoiding.

[lotus]

You may have to go to PAST LIFE REGRESSION THERAPY... It will read your mind, as these scenes flash in your head from the time you are a child, it seems you are carrying your one of the previous birth memories...

It is important to go for the therapy, it will help; do not fall prey to some hoax counselors who hang around.

Thanks Mals, you gals guiding me to therapist is boosting my confidence as I feel there is remedy for my sickness.

[lotus]

lotus,please do not hesitate to visit a hypnotherapist.this is a treatment for such cases like yours.nothing to worry about.they will take you to your past,as mals said.and yo will find the real cause.if possible,i would like to help you in this case.you can pm me about your details.everything is kept secret.we are doing research on such problems related to past life.
Dr. Jyoti, I will PM you and thanks. now I am logging off as my hubby is getting out of shower. bye